MARYLAND'S LESBIAN, GAY, BISEXUAL AND TRANSGENDER
CIVIL RIGHTS ORGANIZATION
Ayanbadejo says same-sex marriage is 'matter of fairness'

Earlier today, Baltimore Ravens linebacker Brendon Ayanbadejo, released a video in support of same-sex marriage, where he states he's proud to be a part something bigger that brings all Marylanders together in a matter of fairness.  

Brendon's video and a statement from Equality Maryland are below.

 

Morgan Meneses-Sheets, Executive Director of Equality Maryland, released this statement in response to Brendon's statement, "We commend Brendon Ayanbadejo for his courageous stand for fairness.  Marriage strengthens couples and families, who in turn help strengthen their communities, one at a time - leading to a stronger, more robust nation. We will reach a time in this country when we value and protect all families equally. We are proud to have heroes like Brendon by our side in this struggle." 

 

The rest of the blog post is as reported by Matt Vensel for the Baltimore Sun:

Ravens linebacker Brendon Ayanbadejo has long been a proponent of same-sex marriage, and he penned an op-ed piece on the hot-button issues for the Huffington Post two years ago.

With the battle to recognize same-sex marriage continuing here in Maryland, Equality Maryland released a video of Ayanbadejo encouraging Marylanders to join him "in the land of the brave for standing on the side of love."

Here is the transcription of the video, which is below.

"Hello, My name is Brendon Ayanbadejo. I'm a linebacker for the Baltimore Ravens. And I'm proud to be a part of something that brings Marylanders together. Another issue that should unite Marylanders that I'm quite proud about is love and marriage.  And right now, an important issue in our state is whether or not to allow gay and lesbian couples who love each other to marry.

"Gay and lesbian couples want to marry for similar reasons as we all do: love and commitment.  It's time to allow them the opportunity to build a family through marriage. It's a matter of fairness. This is why I'm asking Marylanders to join me in supporting marriage equality for same-sex couples.

"Having the freedom to marry means committed couples and their children will have the same crucial protections under the law as other families.  Churches can always have their beliefs, but government is supposed to treat everybody the same, and that's equal. America is supposed to be the land of the free but in order for this to be true for all of us, then we must have the ability to marry whom we love regardless of their gender.

"Think about it, and join me in the land of the brave for standing on the side of love." 

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Events
Date: May 22, 2013 - 04:30
Location: Washington

Join us for a special event!

Lessons from the 2012 State Victories for Marriage Equality 

Alliance for Justice is co-sponsoring an event with Human Rights Campaign to explore what activists, nonprofits, and funders can learn from last year's successful state campaigns in support of marriage equality. Panelists will discuss how they built coalitions, brought in new allies, and developed successful communication techniques and messages.

Panelists will also highlight key decisions that propelled their campaigns to victory and plans to leverage the relationships they’ve built with supporters and legislators moving forward. 

Wednesday, May 22, 2013
4:30 p.m.  
A networking cocktail reception will follow 

Human Rights Campaign 
1640 Rhode Island Ave. N.W. 
Washington, DC 20036 

RSVP at bit.ly/makingchangehappen 

Speakers: 

Marissa Brown, Alliance for Justice 

Richard Carlbom, Minnesotans United for Marriage 

Carrie Evans, Marylanders for Marriage Equality 

Marty Rouse, Human Rights Campaign 

Betsy Smith, Mainers United for Marriage

Tony Wagner, Human Rights Campaign & Washington United for Marriage

 

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Date: June 08, 2013 - 09:00
Location: Baltimore

First Unitarian Church of Baltimore and Free State Legal Project present:

From Stonewall toSecuring Marriage Rights:
What Does It Mean for Us?
Exploring the Legal Implications of Marriage for Gay Couples

A comprehensive overview of legal marriage in the State of Maryland for gay couples. Whether you are already married or just considering, esteemed attorneys Susan Francis and Susan Silber will walk you through everything you need to know before and after you walk down that aisle. Beyond romance, learn what those 1000+ contracts and responsibilities actually mean!

Topics to be discussed include:

DOMA– What is DOMA & Challenges to DOMA; Federal protections outside of DOMA; Considerations when not to marry – (Medicaid, other public benefits, immigration, continuation of prior spousal benefits).

MD Law Overview – 1000+ laws. How protected under MD law? What are protections, benefits, obligations? What is the effect of the federal government not recognizing your marriage? What are the consequences of other states not recognizing your marriage? Strategies to protect your family.

Marriage – Family Law Issues. License – how to marry, what if married elsewhere, what if have a civil union; Pre-nuptial agreements = clarify marital v. nonmarital property, simplify divorce process, collaborative or mediation dispute resolution; Domestic Partnership affidavit– specific benefits.

Protecting our Families. Wills, trusts, health care directive, POA, DP Affidavits, DP or PreNup Agreements

Protecting our Children. Second parent adoption, birth certificate with marriage (full faith & credit issues), problems with de facto/third party parent, donors, surrogacy.

Divorce Issues. Length of marriage, maintaining ties & friendships, DOMA (pension, tax, alimony); dissolution of civil unions/domestic partnerships.

OtherMD Marital Issues. Insurance; Employment – public & private; FMLA; Real Property – Tenants by entirety; Public benefits – Medicaid; Name changes; Taxes – joint – imputed state income; estate; inheritance; alimony & QDROs; transfers between spouses; mortgage interest; tax credit programs; Military & veteran benefits.

 

Saturday, June 8, 2013, 9am - noon
Enoch Pratt Parish Hall, 514 N. Charles Street
Baltimore, MD 21201

The seminar is free and open to the public. However, space is limited, so please respond to office@firstunitarian.net, or call 410-685-2330 to reserve your seat. Participants are encouraged to submit questions in advance via email.

About the presenters:

Susan Francis is the Foreclosure Prevention Project Manager at the Maryland Volunteer Lawyers Service (MVLS). She formerly was an Associate at Silber, Perlman, Sigman and Tilev; and theFamily Law Research Specialist at the Administrative Office of the Courts, Department of Family Administration. She graduated from the University of Baltimore School of Law in 2011. She was a member of Law Review and the Omicron Delta Kappa National Honor Society for Leadership. She has interned at the Public Justice Center, the U.S. Attorney’s Office, the U.S. Department of Justice and the Annie E. Casey Foundation.

 

Susan has a B.S. and M.S. in Journalism from Ohio University. She served as Development and Communications Director for the Coalition on Homelessness and Housing for twelve years and was most recently the Development Director forEquality Maryland. She serves on the Board of Directors of Free State LegalProject and the Public Justice Center. She has co-written with Ms. Silber several articles on gay marriage for the Washington Blade, the Maryland Domestic Law Reporter, and the Equality Maryland marriage FAQs on their webpage, and has conducted various workshops on the intersection of family law and LGBT families. Susan and her wife, Sandy, were married in Ontario, Canada in 2004. susanfrancis@gmail.com

Susan Silber has dedicated her legal career of over 30 years to advancing the rights of all families, including a focus on same-sex families. Susan founded the law firm of Silber, Perlman, Sigman & Tilev, PA, which is a full service, community-based law firm located in Takoma Park, Maryland. She is an experienced attorney in family, employment, civil rights, and municipal law, and has served as the City Attorney for Takoma Park for 30 years.

 

In addition to drafting, counseling, negotiation, and litigation, Susan is an experienced mediator and collaborative attorney. She has assisted hundreds of people incooperatively forming their families (e.g., second parent adoptions, livingtogether contracts, powers of attorney, medical directives, and parenting agreements). Sue has been featured on national television and is a frequent guest speaker. She has spoken extensively on Lesbian and Gay parenting issues, including custody, adoption, alternative fertilization, surrogacy, and documents helpful in protecting unmarried and same-sex families. Susan was named a Super Lawyer by her peers in Super Lawyers Magazine for both Maryland and Washington, DC.

 

Susan is a member of the National Family Law Advisory Council of the National Center for Lesbian Rights, currently serves on the board of Equality Maryland and the Divorce Roundtable, and is a past president of the LGBT Bar Association of Maryland. She was recently honored for her distinguished service by COLAGE (Children of Lesbians and Gays Everywhere), GAYLAW (Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual,Transgender Attorneys of Washington, DC), and her synagogue Bet Mishpachah.Susan’s children have two moms. Her family has been featured in three books and was interviewed by Barbara Walters for ABC’s “20/20”. silber@sp-law.com

Date: June 09, 2013 - 12:00
Location: Columbia

Please join us the second sunday of every month for our Board Meeting.

 

Contact Vanessa, vanessa@equalitymaryland.org, for more information.